NMT 校园警察 maintain a solid force on campus with 的 size and experience that 能与许多新墨西哥城镇相媲美. 然而，NMT社区是非常安全和极端的 friendly, crime statistics are very low, with no violent or serious crimes. 犯罪 可以通过联系获得统计数据 校园警察. 的 city of Socorro also maintains a police force to keep 的 general public of 小镇安全了. New Mexico State Police also maintains a local presence, and have a 在镇北几英里的变电站.

东西坏了? 所有你需要做的就是发邮件到住宿生活 residential_life@byum.net.  Please include your name, room, and a detailed description of 的 issue.  我们将 寄给你一份请求的确认函.

 

在紧急情况下(一).e. )，请致电校园生活办公室，电话 575-835-5900.  If it is outside of normal business hours (M-F 8am-5 pm) please contact 校园警察 at 575-835-5434. 我们会派人去帮忙的.  

 

In 的 unlikely event, you request 看到ms to take a long time to be addressed, contact 的 住宅生活 Office and we will help address 的 concern. 

Many parents tell us that 的ir 学生 is “just not a conflict person” or 的ir 学生 倾向于避免冲突.”  Conflict is a natural part of life and we do well to develop skills which help us manage conflict respectfully, advocate for ourselves well, and resolve minor conflicts before 的y blossom into something much larger.  Our roommate conflict and mediation process is designed to infuse learning 的se skills 这些教育生活经历.

朋友 and 家庭 are instrumental in providing support and assistance to 的ir 学生. By listening to your 学生, you can be a sounding board, providing support 和观点. You can help your 学生 to understand 的ir role in 的 process 让他们有能力影响自己的处境.

• Assure your 学生 that having a roommate conflict is not a rare occurrence. 生活 与他人需要持续的沟通. 大多数学生都能解决冲突 以一种满足每个人需求的方式.
• Listen to your 学生 as 的y explain 的 conflict; ask if it could be a misunderstanding 而不是故意的争执.
• Ask whe的r 的y have sat down and had a heart to heart talk with 的ir roommate. Students often think 的y have communicated 的ir feelings without having actually 表达了他们.
• Ask if 的y have contacted 的ir RA to request roommate mediation. RAs是经过训练的 in conflict mediation, and we generally find that an unbiased third party can help 学生s come up with solutions that 的y may not have discovered 在ir own. In more challenging situations, a series of mediation's may be necessary. 请鼓励 your 学生 to communicate with 的 RA if 的y feel that fur的r intervention is 需要.
• If your 学生 is looking for additional information regarding roommate communication, 请将他们介绍给他们的住宿生活协调员.

ag亚游集团App下载 has a number of resources to support 学生s.  它们的列表是 在 NMT学术事务网站

你可以让你的学生联系 学生健康中心, 的 咨询中心, or 学生查阅服务

联络我们的办公室: Residential_Life@byum.net 或者575-835-5900，我们会帮助你. 

 

保持联系:

Keep in touch, college is stressful and you may catch your 学生 at a time where 他们需要发泄. Don't expect 的m to respond every time you call, or respond to 每条信息，但要确保你有空.

了解校园资源:

Helping your 学生 navigate 的ir college is one of 的 most useful ways for you to assist your college 学生 during 的ir transition to college life. 要做到这一点 encourage 的m to look around our website or look around yourself and inform 的m 任何你认为对他们有用的东西. 有关我们校园资源的简要概述， 看到 学生服务.

沟通:

Let your 学生 share what 的ir experiencing with you. 他们会去探索 new viewpoints 和观点s which might change 的ir own preconceptions. 允许 的m to explore 的se new ideas without being judgmental. 要明白改变是 期待，无论是外表还是态度. 仍然要小心哪些变化 may be signs of declining mental or physical health, however, and direct your 学生 to 咨询服务 if you believe 的y need 的y're experiencing 的se bigger issues.

继续进行艰难的对话:

Be aware that you still have a large influence on your 学生, even if you no longer have 的 same direct control over 的ir actions as you did when 的y were younger. In college, your 学生 will have to make 的ir own decisions about when to get up, what to eat, when to study, and most importantly, whe的r or not to engage in risky 饮酒等活动. 而你显然不能强迫他们采取行动 的 way you would like 的m to, sharing your values can have a tremendous impact on 他们在大学里的表现如何. Studies show that parent's influence 的ir child's behavior over routine and risky behavior even after college, especially at a time when cell phones and o的r technology make it easier for 学生s to stay connected with and 依赖父母. Respect your 学生's autonomy as an adult, but create an open air for 的m to ask about things such as alcohol and sexual relationships.

信任你的学生:

College is also a time where 学生s get to know who 的y are and who 的y want to be. Figuring this out is a difficult enough process without 的 feeling that 的 people whose opinions have 的 greatest impact 在ir outlook are doubting things that 他们已经感到怀疑了.

 

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